Friday, 8 March 2013

Dramas Indefinitely Happens




-Dramas:  Feeding the World negativities since xx B.C.-



Drama Indefinitely Happens

When more than one person co-exist.

Unless if you count having a mental drama with yourself but it is the inexplicable truth that drama definitely and WILL happen when there's more than one person in a certain given radius irregardless of their gender.

The type of drama that I meant is the emotional dramas that happens between you and someone else.  It's not those type of talent where you win an Oscar prize for it.  It's where and when you make your enemies, harness hate and gossips, shedding tears, breaking friendship or relationship, shoutings, backstabbing, spreading rumours and every other unpleasant things that you can think of.

It could happen online, at home, forum, work place, school, entertainment parks, photoshoot session, this, that, up, down, left, right, everywhere.  It's like this undying viral disease that has existed since Adam & Eve's time and the snake is the one that caused all the drama.

A wise man once told me:  If dramas could severe your own blood-family ties, drama will indefinitely happen between two strangers who are put together by circumstances and not by choice:  e.g. a project where you have to recruit people other than your usual own gang, joining a new work place, collaborating with new people that you have no experience working with etc etc.

It seems to me that most of the time, drama happens because of territorial insecurities.  Cliques or gangs tries to exert their rights or control over the minorities so the minorities either gets absorbed into the clique or they are singled out as easy target and that's when the beauty of drama begins.

Drama knows no sex, gender, sexual orientation nor the time and place.  It could happen anytime, anywhere and it could happen to anyone.  This three reminds me of omnipresent, omniscience and omnipotent lol!  No, drama does not equal God but there could always be God-level dramas.  >D  We have the drama queens, drama kings, drama secretary, the drama starter, drama encourager, drama sacrifice and every other positions that you can be part of.  Drama in soccer, drama within a drama, drama in the bedroom, drama everywhere.

Heck, so many tv shows made tons of money out of all this drama!  Celebrity reality shows, America's Next Top Model (ooh lala), The Apprentice, Cake Boss, CSI (drama within drama lol) and these are the famous ones among others.

Even Youtube celebrities gets drama.  Michelle Phan, the famous Youtube Make-up Artist has an entire forum dedicated to her just to hating her and I hate to say this, but her ONE THREAD in that forum has got more members, views and comments that I get in a month all put together lol!  And what's worst, I believe 98% of her hates have never met her before!  They just hate her, *snaps finger* like that!

Hating someone seems to be one of the easiest thing to do because it costs you nothing of value and you can just conjure hate out of thin air.  "I hate her guts" "I hate her attitude" "I hate his face" Bla bla bla.  Yada yada yada.  Babbles.

This entire post deserves an award.  An award for negativity x 100% lol.  And it is saddening to see that a lot of people at a lot of times and a lot of occasion does not see all this negativity happening around them.  They are involved in one drama or more and yet they either does not seem to realize they are in one or they are just truly enjoying of being in one.

Being in a drama, hating someone else, gossiping.  I find all this pretty tiring and never forget one thing:  Karma.  You could be having a drama with person A this time around and you have your gang backing you up this time but the next victim might just be you.  What goes round WILL come around and it's coming back at you pretty fast.  So I will say watch out.

It's always better to be sincere around others.  Say things straight forwardly even if it might sounds a bit offending at first because in the long run, it will serve you far better for being honest than being a hypocrite.  E.g. If you find me adjusting your laptop's brightness every time I use your laptop annoying, you gotta tell me if I did not stop doing that.  Tell me once and I will remember to adjust the laptop brightness back to it's original state, the way you like it rather than telling 10 or 15 person more about how I have this bad habit of adjusting your laptop brightness and not adjusting it back because telling one person is less tiring than telling 15 others and telling me once would rectify the problem.  Telling 15 times to 15 others and I will still be repeating the same thing because I simply don't know that whatever I am doing is annoying you!

And saying something behind a person's back does not make you the good guy or the polite guy.  It simply makes you a coward and a person who wants to create drama out of nothingness but what the heck, I do know a few people who cannot live without dramas.  It's as though they will die without one.

My message for today:



Strip yourself OFF this drama!



Strip yourself OFF this negativity!



Don't strip MORE than necessary!  That will invite more drama!  Especially when your company is your friend's lover!




81 comments:

  1. Got it so right . Drama , drama , drama . Why people don't learn to be something " real" or "nice" . Everywhere , we have to be aftificial but backbitting . Uffffffff.
    Noor @ Noor's Place

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    1. :< People nowadays are superficial and fake but when you are able to find someone who is not fake around you, then you have found a golden friend and they are for you to keep <3

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  2. hey there u've got a gr8 blog. want to follow eachother??? if so follow me and let me know i'll follow back for sure.. :)

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  3. I agree with you :) Being honest is the best!

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  4. I like the infinity print you made for this post! Neat!
    -Jamie
    ChatterBlossom

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  5. Really interesting and inspirational post!

    xoxo

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  6. instresting post dear
    n thanx for dropping by my blog
    xoxo

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  7. wow, great read! and i agree, drama is inevitable. even if you are positive 100% of the time, i still believe people are going to hate. i have experienced that and it sucks.. it's how you handle it that counts... always love stopping by your blog! -xo.melody

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  8. gorgeous style, adoring your blog!
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    lots of love from La-La Land
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    1. Thank you! Your blog's awesome, with an awesome team <3

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  9. Omg sis, the amount of feedback! Your blog's getting popular<3 Great job! Soon you'll be buried in 100+ messages everyday too xDDD (or perhaps you are already?)

    And dramaaaaaaaaaa~ yes. Though you can't help but admit, seeing it happen from the sides is sometimes rather... entertaining xD Grab some popcorn, sit back and just waaaaaaatch. -shot- Getting involved in one is shitty though. So better back a safe distance away.

    "Adjusting laptop brightness" xD... I find that topic familiar, hmmmm? Didn't think it'd come up in this post though LOL

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    1. I wish, never touched 100 yet lol, not even 50 I believe =P

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  10. Hey sweety! Thanks for stopping by and wishing me! And as usual you never forget to drop by me time to time! Tehe! You are such a sweet heart! Great post btw! Stop by me soon again! xx

    With love ♥.
    www.fashionholicsparkle.blogspot.com

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  11. Great job! :)

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  12. Nice post! The only drama I like is K-drama xD

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  13. This is a very well done post!! I have seen those forums dedicated to basing a person on youtube. I can't believe everything that is sad sometimes. I'm thankful there's (hopefully) nothing that crazy like that about me out there.

    I agree that drama is not 100% avoidable, but it is possible to try and resolve it as quick as possible by being honest with that person!

    http://www.mybrokeneggshells.com

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    1. I knoww!! Those people have so much time to hate a person o.o

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    1. Yeah it does!! Except drama in The Big Bang Theory. That would be interesting >D

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  15. I actually enjoy hearing some of other peoples dramas, but I hate to stir some up myself. I always try to go out of my own way to avoid any kind of drama involving me or my friends / loved ones.

    "What goes round WILL come around and it's coming back at you pretty fast" I completely agree - karma is a bish :P

    P.S.: That's an awesome picture btw :D

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    1. Lol thank you :D

      I don't think anyone wants to be caught in a drama. It's so mind boggling and tiring D:

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  16. thanks for this great post
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  17. I definitely agree drama happens in everyone's life and they're kind of learning blocks in life in my opinion. I think being cordial is an important aspect of learning how to get along with people who you may not want to either. I agree that it's better to be honest, genuine, and nice (rather than the opposite)!

    Joyce @carouselstreet.com

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    1. Join the club, Joyce! If only everyone's a bit nicer, this world would be a much better place to live in <3

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  18. love your blog! It's so nice!!! I follow you!
    Pass to my blog and if it likes you follow me too, I will be so glad :D
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    1. Hahaha thanks love!

      I've followed you for quite some time already =P

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  19. thnx for following.. followed u back..:P

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  20. great post! drama always happennnn some people called me a drama queen lol

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  21. Great post
    You really do have a lovely blog, just stumbled across it now

    Would you like to follow each other via GFC and bloglovin’?
    If so let me know and I’ll follow you right back

    My blog is a fashion/lifestyle blog!

    Speak soon,
    Have a lovely evening
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  22. amazing post! love it <3 very intense!

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  23. i totally agree with you. it's less tiring to straight forwardly tell that person to stop being annoying than telling other people about how annoying he or she is.

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    1. Yeah, but sometimes we just gotta pick up our courage to say it out

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  24. oh, indeed ... we need more freedom and peace!

    xo Cam

    http://some-kind-of-style.blogspot.de

    @somekindofstyle

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    1. Yeah :D Need to be more outspoken! Freedom of speech!

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  25. Yeah drama happens everywhere and happens when you're with certain people more than others, especially ones that say "i hate drama" are the worst because usually they are the ones who cause it! Anyways people change and real friends stick by your side, it's better to cut out the people creating drama, they're toxic and it's just not worth it!

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    1. LOL I KNOW RIGHT! Hahaha! "I hate drama! *gossips* *creates drama*" That's a good advise there, cutting people of who creates drama. Good one!

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  26. I agree...drama is nothing but a great waste of time and energy and begets nothing but more drama..
    good post and nice way to write about it...
    Best, Zia
    http://tisallaboutthefashion.blogspot.in

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    1. Thank you for reading it till the end, love <3

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  27. Love your blog! Maybe we could follow each other on GFC and bloglovin? Please leave me a comment, follow me and then I will follow you back!!! For sure!!

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  28. wow !! thanks so much for nominating me for that award although i have just started to blog ACTIVELY :) i really hope that i can keep up being responsive to my readers and keep up my blog upgrades after my life has started here in Hong Kong. I'm quite busy in my first week in Hong Kong, but I will catch up on answering the questions for the award later this week :D

    hehe, i think i'm still far away from being one of those really good photographers that take heaps of breathtaking shots... >< but im trying my best :)

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    1. Whoa you already shifted to Hong Kong? That's awesome! Hope you have a great time there and we are still awaiting your awesome photos! <3

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  29. Helloooo mish!!! Been long since I last dropped by and I missed reading your post! Gosh I've been so busy lately. I love reading your comments on my blog too <3

    Anyway, chill chill! I do agree completely with the karma thing and I can totally relate what you feel. P.S. America's Next Top Model is really nice to watch though! And your last sentence about not stripping off more than necessary made me laugh haha. Have a great day mish!

    Many kisses
    ♡ Jaslin from http://justjaslin.blogspot.sg/

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    1. Hehehe glad that I could make you laugh! <3 Bringing laughters to the world is a really great thing <3 Spread all the happiness around! I love reading your comments or feedback on my blog too <3

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  30. excellent blog!!

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  31. Lovely blog!! Your post is so amazing :)
    Have a nice day lovely
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  32. Cute word, great motivation! I really like your blog! If you’re interested in following each other on GFC and Facebook, it would be a pleasure! Love, D.

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    1. Thanks love, for the invitation! I really appreciate it :D

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  33. Gosh, I hate back-stabbing! Lovely share!

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  34. hehe, i'm originally cantonese, though not exactly from hong kong :) i won't be studying here :P I graduated already, and just came to Hong Kong for work. I've always wanted to live the Asian lifestyle, and since I have relatives, friends and my boyfriend here, and also speak cantonese, I came to Hong Kong. Let's see where life is going here...

    yeah, u should visit germany sometime. for someone who has never lived or stayed, it must definitely be very interesting to see the buildings, cities and culture. for me, it has become quite boring though, since i grew up in germany hahaha.

    i tried to keep up blogging as much as possible, especially since i am now in a "new world" where there are a lot of things to blog about :))) hope i can find time to properly blog in between my work schedule... =/ work here is quite stressful.

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  35. haha yeshh cat is a cute living fur balls xD i even sleep with my cat hehe.

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  36. Amazing post! love it!!
    Would you like to follow each other? Let me know!

    The Fashion Heels
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  37. I totally hate unnecessary drama too! However, (and I believe this is sad) some people thrive off it.

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  38. wow!! after reading your rant, i probably had second thoughts on drama now!
    i see that you're a nuffnanger too, so where are you from? couldn't be far away from Malaysia if you're a nuffnanger. hee
    i'm following you
    hope you check out my blog to see if it's worth following

    http://www.fatiguechic.blogspot.com

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  39. haha i dunno... i kinda like drama.... i think life gets too boring otherwise. nothing too drastic, of course, but just a bit of tension here and there are kind of nice and spices up one's life.

    -liv
    http://chocolivlovelaugh.blogspot.kr

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  40. I totally agree with this. I use to think that I like drama cause life gets a bit boring sometime, but even after I honestly don't want drama, it always comes back to bite me. Perhaps I'm destined to have this stuff, or it's just my chemistry with the world, but it's kinda annoying at times, esp the fact that I'm working in the fashion industry.... It's awful at times... Btw, so glad I clicked on your comment that led me back to your blog, your posts' contents are info and image juicy so expect to be seeing some regular comments from me. You must see my new outfit post sporting Nicholas Ghesquiere for BALENCIAGA pieces from the good ol' days, it's architectural inspired with quirky textures. Do tell me what you think on the provoking pieces ;)

    xx The Provoker
    http://www.the-provoker.com/2013/03/archi-texture.html

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  41. Hi dear!! Thank you so much for your sweetie comment!!
    I really appreciate what you said!!
    Lovely post :)
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  42. Thank you for your lovely comment!
    I like visiting your blog as well!

    http://www.asilosofy.com/

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  43. awwwh! it feel so nice to have found a fellow malaysian blogger! it's like finding your unknown family members!
    ya! i recomend you to watch the movie!! it's worth it!!
    plenty of laughters.
    by the way, i heard that google readers is closing down this July, will it affect our followers?

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